Explore upcoming Studio of Secrets events.
Some events, such as our Secret Sessions, offer a considered blend of education, connection, and immersive experience. We recommend reviewing each listing carefully to understand what is offered.
Attendance is intentionally limited to maintain a respectful, high-quality environment.
First time attending? You’re welcome here. No experience is required unless specified within the event.
Flogging | The Flow Method with Hadrian
Find your own flow with a flogger. Hadrian guides beginners and experienced Tops through safe, effective technique, different strike sensations and hands-on practice in pairs.
Secret Sessions - October
A relaxed afternoon of upskilling, community building and play - come and explore the Studio in our new Sunday Sessions!
The Secret Society: October
Come spend your night in our beautiful space with our friendly team and wonderful guests.
Pins and Needles - October
Whether your interest in sharps and needles is a newfound passion, or you've been honing your skills for some time, we'd love to have you along.
Domina Circle
Welcome to Domina Circle
Had a moment in a scene that you’re still thinking about? Found your way through a tricky negotiation? Tried something new and want to talk it through? Or had a win that only another Domme would really appreciate?
Bring it to Domina Circle.
Domina Circle is a casual peer-support group for femmes and thems who take on a Dominant role. It’s a space to talk about your play, your dynamics, the things that are challenging you, and the things that are going brilliantly — with people who actually get it.
Come along to talk through something difficult, swap ideas, ask questions, celebrate a win, or simply listen to how someone else approaches their dynamic. Maybe you’re dealing with a tricky negotiation, figuring out how to handle a particular situation, questioning something that happened in a scene, or just wondering, “Is this a thing other Dommes deal with too?”
Professional and lifestyle Dominants are welcome, as are people in female-led relationships and Switches who occupy the Dominant role.
You don’t need years of experience. You don’t need a polished story. And you definitely don’t need to have all the answers.This is peer support. We’re here to learn from each other, share what we’ve learned, offer perspective, and occasionally realise that someone else has been through exactly the same weird shit.
Zoe Demure will host and help guide the conversation at Studio of Secrets, but Domina Circle isn’t a class or a workshop — the good stuff comes from the room. Different experiences, honest questions, practical suggestions, shared stories and the simple relief of being able to talk openly with other Dominants.
Who is it for?
Domina Circle is for femmes and thems who occupy a Top/Dominant role.That includes FemDoms, ThemDoms, Switches who Top, professional Dominants, lifestyle Dominants, and leaders in female-led relationships.
It’s deliberately a space for Dominant women and non-binary Dominants to support one another.
Male Dominants and submissives, we love you — but this particular circle isn't for you.
The important stuff
We want Domina Circle to be a place where people can be honest, ask awkward questions, talk about difficult experiences and share things they might not feel comfortable discussing elsewhere. So we have a few non-negotiables:
Confidentiality - What is discussed in the room stays in the room. Don’t take someone else’s stories outside with you.
Privacy - Who chooses to attend is their business. We don't gossip about attendance or share who was there.
Respect - You don't have to agree with someone. You don't have to like their approach. You do have to treat them — and their experience — with respect.
Kindness - We’re here to support each other, not compete with each other. Ask questions in good faith, offer advice when it’s wanted, and assume there’s a human being on the other side of the conversation.
Basically: lead with kindness. Don’t be a dick. You’ll be fine. Domina Circle will begin as a four-session pilot program, meeting every fortnight at Studio of Secrets.
The time includes a half hour break after the first hour.
If the circle is well received and people want it to continue, the intention is to bring Domina Circle back as an ongoing program next year.
For now, we're bringing a roomful of Dominants together and seeing what happens.
Command Course | Workshop 1. Negotiation and Safety Considerations
Start Command! with the skills that underpin confident play: negotiation, consent, safety and aftercare. This practical workshop also covers challenging situations, accessibility, drop and documentation. No sub or bottom required.
Secret Sessions - November
A relaxed afternoon of upskilling, community building and play - come and explore the Studio in our new Sunday Sessions!
Domina Circle
Welcome to Domina Circle
Had a moment in a scene that you’re still thinking about? Found your way through a tricky negotiation? Tried something new and want to talk it through? Or had a win that only another Domme would really appreciate?
Bring it to Domina Circle.
Domina Circle is a casual peer-support group for femmes and thems who take on a Dominant role. It’s a space to talk about your play, your dynamics, the things that are challenging you, and the things that are going brilliantly — with people who actually get it.
Come along to talk through something difficult, swap ideas, ask questions, celebrate a win, or simply listen to how someone else approaches their dynamic. Maybe you’re dealing with a tricky negotiation, figuring out how to handle a particular situation, questioning something that happened in a scene, or just wondering, “Is this a thing other Dommes deal with too?”
Professional and lifestyle Dominants are welcome, as are people in female-led relationships and Switches who occupy the Dominant role.
You don’t need years of experience. You don’t need a polished story. And you definitely don’t need to have all the answers.This is peer support. We’re here to learn from each other, share what we’ve learned, offer perspective, and occasionally realise that someone else has been through exactly the same weird shit.
Zoe Demure will host and help guide the conversation at Studio of Secrets, but Domina Circle isn’t a class or a workshop — the good stuff comes from the room. Different experiences, honest questions, practical suggestions, shared stories and the simple relief of being able to talk openly with other Dominants.
Who is it for?
Domina Circle is for femmes and thems who occupy a Top/Dominant role.That includes FemDoms, ThemDoms, Switches who Top, professional Dominants, lifestyle Dominants, and leaders in female-led relationships.
It’s deliberately a space for Dominant women and non-binary Dominants to support one another.
Male Dominants and submissives, we love you — but this particular circle isn't for you.
The important stuff
We want Domina Circle to be a place where people can be honest, ask awkward questions, talk about difficult experiences and share things they might not feel comfortable discussing elsewhere. So we have a few non-negotiables:
Confidentiality - What is discussed in the room stays in the room. Don’t take someone else’s stories outside with you.
Privacy - Who chooses to attend is their business. We don't gossip about attendance or share who was there.
Respect - You don't have to agree with someone. You don't have to like their approach. You do have to treat them — and their experience — with respect.
Kindness - We’re here to support each other, not compete with each other. Ask questions in good faith, offer advice when it’s wanted, and assume there’s a human being on the other side of the conversation.
Basically: lead with kindness. Don’t be a dick. You’ll be fine. Domina Circle will begin as a four-session pilot program, meeting every fortnight at Studio of Secrets.
The time includes a half hour break after the first hour.
If the circle is well received and people want it to continue, the intention is to bring Domina Circle back as an ongoing program next year.
For now, we're bringing a roomful of Dominants together and seeing what happens.
Command Course | Workshop 2. Equipment approved by the Pros
Touch it. Learn it. Use it well. Explore equipment up close, learn which tools are useful and body-safe, and build confidence in choosing, using and caring for your kit. No sub or bottom required.
Pins and Needles - November
Whether your interest in sharps and needles is a newfound passion, or you've been honing your skills for some time, we'd love to have you along.
Command Course | Workshop 3. Bondage for Beginners
Build your rope skills with guided, hands-on practice. Learn essential ties and harnesses, understand how they work, and practise keeping your partner safe. Bring your sub or ask about a practice partner.
Domina Circle
Welcome to Domina Circle
Had a moment in a scene that you’re still thinking about? Found your way through a tricky negotiation? Tried something new and want to talk it through? Or had a win that only another Domme would really appreciate?
Bring it to Domina Circle.
Domina Circle is a casual peer-support group for femmes and thems who take on a Dominant role. It’s a space to talk about your play, your dynamics, the things that are challenging you, and the things that are going brilliantly — with people who actually get it.
Come along to talk through something difficult, swap ideas, ask questions, celebrate a win, or simply listen to how someone else approaches their dynamic. Maybe you’re dealing with a tricky negotiation, figuring out how to handle a particular situation, questioning something that happened in a scene, or just wondering, “Is this a thing other Dommes deal with too?”
Professional and lifestyle Dominants are welcome, as are people in female-led relationships and Switches who occupy the Dominant role.
You don’t need years of experience. You don’t need a polished story. And you definitely don’t need to have all the answers.This is peer support. We’re here to learn from each other, share what we’ve learned, offer perspective, and occasionally realise that someone else has been through exactly the same weird shit.
Zoe Demure will host and help guide the conversation at Studio of Secrets, but Domina Circle isn’t a class or a workshop — the good stuff comes from the room. Different experiences, honest questions, practical suggestions, shared stories and the simple relief of being able to talk openly with other Dominants.
Who is it for?
Domina Circle is for femmes and thems who occupy a Top/Dominant role.That includes FemDoms, ThemDoms, Switches who Top, professional Dominants, lifestyle Dominants, and leaders in female-led relationships.
It’s deliberately a space for Dominant women and non-binary Dominants to support one another.
Male Dominants and submissives, we love you — but this particular circle isn't for you.
The important stuff
We want Domina Circle to be a place where people can be honest, ask awkward questions, talk about difficult experiences and share things they might not feel comfortable discussing elsewhere. So we have a few non-negotiables:
Confidentiality - What is discussed in the room stays in the room. Don’t take someone else’s stories outside with you.
Privacy - Who chooses to attend is their business. We don't gossip about attendance or share who was there.
Respect - You don't have to agree with someone. You don't have to like their approach. You do have to treat them — and their experience — with respect.
Kindness - We’re here to support each other, not compete with each other. Ask questions in good faith, offer advice when it’s wanted, and assume there’s a human being on the other side of the conversation.
Basically: lead with kindness. Don’t be a dick. You’ll be fine. Domina Circle will begin as a four-session pilot program, meeting every fortnight at Studio of Secrets.
The time includes a half hour break after the first hour.
If the circle is well received and people want it to continue, the intention is to bring Domina Circle back as an ongoing program next year.
For now, we're bringing a roomful of Dominants together and seeing what happens.
Command Course | Workshop 4. Foundations of corporal punishment
Develop safer, more intentional impact play skills. Practise aim, control and technique with a range of tools while learning to read your partner’s physical and emotional responses. Bring your sub or ask for a practice partner.
The Secret Society: November
Come spend your night in our beautiful space with our friendly team and wonderful guests.
Command Course | Workshop 5. Unlock the art, safety and pleasure of anal play
Explore anal play with confidence and care. Mistress Zoe guides you through preparation, technique, communication, hygiene and aftercare in a practical workshop for beginners and those building their skills. Bring your sub or ask for a practice partner.
Domina Circle
Welcome to Domina Circle
Had a moment in a scene that you’re still thinking about? Found your way through a tricky negotiation? Tried something new and want to talk it through? Or had a win that only another Domme would really appreciate?
Bring it to Domina Circle.
Domina Circle is a casual peer-support group for femmes and thems who take on a Dominant role. It’s a space to talk about your play, your dynamics, the things that are challenging you, and the things that are going brilliantly — with people who actually get it.
Come along to talk through something difficult, swap ideas, ask questions, celebrate a win, or simply listen to how someone else approaches their dynamic. Maybe you’re dealing with a tricky negotiation, figuring out how to handle a particular situation, questioning something that happened in a scene, or just wondering, “Is this a thing other Dommes deal with too?”
Professional and lifestyle Dominants are welcome, as are people in female-led relationships and Switches who occupy the Dominant role.
You don’t need years of experience. You don’t need a polished story. And you definitely don’t need to have all the answers.This is peer support. We’re here to learn from each other, share what we’ve learned, offer perspective, and occasionally realise that someone else has been through exactly the same weird shit.
Zoe Demure will host and help guide the conversation at Studio of Secrets, but Domina Circle isn’t a class or a workshop — the good stuff comes from the room. Different experiences, honest questions, practical suggestions, shared stories and the simple relief of being able to talk openly with other Dominants.
Who is it for?
Domina Circle is for femmes and thems who occupy a Top/Dominant role.That includes FemDoms, ThemDoms, Switches who Top, professional Dominants, lifestyle Dominants, and leaders in female-led relationships.
It’s deliberately a space for Dominant women and non-binary Dominants to support one another.
Male Dominants and submissives, we love you — but this particular circle isn't for you.
The important stuff
We want Domina Circle to be a place where people can be honest, ask awkward questions, talk about difficult experiences and share things they might not feel comfortable discussing elsewhere. So we have a few non-negotiables:
Confidentiality - What is discussed in the room stays in the room. Don’t take someone else’s stories outside with you.
Privacy - Who chooses to attend is their business. We don't gossip about attendance or share who was there.
Respect - You don't have to agree with someone. You don't have to like their approach. You do have to treat them — and their experience — with respect.
Kindness - We’re here to support each other, not compete with each other. Ask questions in good faith, offer advice when it’s wanted, and assume there’s a human being on the other side of the conversation.
Basically: lead with kindness. Don’t be a dick. You’ll be fine. Domina Circle will begin as a four-session pilot program, meeting every fortnight at Studio of Secrets.
The time includes a half hour break after the first hour.
If the circle is well received and people want it to continue, the intention is to bring Domina Circle back as an ongoing program next year.
For now, we're bringing a roomful of Dominants together and seeing what happens.
Command Course | Workshop 6. The Art of Humiliation and Degradation
Explore the possibilities and risks of humiliation and degradation play with Mistress Zoe. Through discussion and real-life examples, learn to negotiate clearly, practise ethically, and make space for aftercare and emotional repair. No sub or bottom required.
Secret Sessions - December
A relaxed afternoon of upskilling, community building and play - come and explore the Studio in our new Sunday Sessions!
Pins and Needles - December
Whether your interest in sharps and needles is a newfound passion, or you've been honing your skills for some time, we'd love to have you along.
The Secret Society: September
Come spend your night in our beautiful space with our friendly team and wonderful guests.
Getting Nerdy About CBT with Mistress Honey Analverkehr
Curious about CBT but want to know exactly what you’re doing before you start experimenting? Get nerdy with Mistress Honey Analverkehr as she breaks down the anatomy, techniques and risks behind CBT. Learn how to build intensity safely, make informed choices and explore with greater confidence—no fancy equipment required.
Pins and Needles - September
Whether your interest in sharps and needles is a newfound passion, or you've been honing your skills for some time, we'd love to have you along.
Edge Play #6 | Interrogation
Interrogation scenes combine psychology, power exchange, resistance, emotional intensity and creative scene design into a uniquely immersive form of edge play. In this concluding workshop, Dr Pine and SparklyBulbasaur explore how to plan, build and execute compelling interrogation scenes while maintaining strong safety frameworks and risk awareness. Participants will examine different styles of interrogation play, the art of creating atmosphere and psychological pressure, emotional regulation, scene pacing, and techniques for managing intensity. Drawing on concepts explored throughout the Edge Play Series, this workshop brings together communication, negotiation, fear, control and psychological play into a powerful and memorable scene format.
Secret Sessions - September
A relaxed afternoon of upskilling, community building and play - come and explore the Studio in our new Sunday Sessions!
Edge Play #5 | Knife Play
Knife play can be intense, intimate, psychological, sensual or sadistic, making it one of the most versatile forms of edge play. In this workshop, Dr Pine and SparklyBulbasaur provide a practical introduction to knife play, exploring safety considerations, knife selection, scene construction and risk management. Through discussion, demonstration and real-world examples, participants will learn how to incorporate knives into their play more confidently while maintaining a strong focus on safety, communication and harm reduction.
Edge Play #4 | Sadistic Rough Body Play
Not all powerful BDSM tools come from a toy bag. Sometimes your most effective tools are your own hands. In this practical workshop, Dr Pine and SparklyBulbasaur explore the fundamentals of physical control, body manipulation, pain compliance, pinning, and resistance within risk-aware edge play. Participants will learn how to safely move, position and control a partner, understand the risks involved in rougher styles of play, and develop strategies for safer practice, emergency management and communication. Combining practical demonstrations with hands-on learning opportunities, this workshop provides a foundation for engaging in physically intense play with greater confidence and safety.
Cybersecurity Awareness for Kinksters
Sasori takes a deep dive leveraging years of experience in this area to provide a simple approach to mitigating risk and making yourself harder to breach.
The Secret Society: August
Come spend your night in our beautiful space with our friendly team and wonderful guests.
Exploding Rope. Why Untie When You Can Pull The Pin?
In this class we will look at ties that untie extremely fast and simply, offering a flashy means of ending your scene while still providing that lovely bondage we all love.
Rope for Utility, Rope for Non-rope People
In this beginner level class, we delve into the tips, tricks and simple maneuvers which can help any top be a rope badass in their play.
Pins and Needles - August
Whether your interest in sharps and needles is a newfound passion, or you've been honing your skills for some time, we'd love to have you along.
Edge Play #3 | Consensual Non Consent
Consensual Non-Consent (CNC) is one of the most complex and high-risk forms of BDSM play, requiring exceptional communication, trust, preparation and risk awareness. In this workshop, Dr Pine and SparklyBulbasaur explore different styles of CNC, negotiation strategies, scene planning, risk management, and mutual aftercare. With a strong focus on consent, harm reduction and emotional safety, participants will learn practical approaches to creating intense and immersive experiences while maintaining robust safety frameworks.
Secret Sessions - August
A relaxed afternoon of upskilling, community building and play - come and explore the Studio in our new Sunday Sessions!
Edge Play #2 | Fear Play
Fear can be one of the most powerful tools in BDSM, creating intensity, anticipation, vulnerability and unforgettable experiences. In this workshop, Dr Pine and SparklyBulbasaur explore the psychology and physiology of fear, practical fear play techniques, risk management strategies, and the communication skills needed to safely incorporate fear into scenes and ongoing dynamics. Designed for experienced kink practitioners, this class provides a thoughtful, harm-reduction-focused approach to one of BDSM's most challenging forms of play.
Edge Play #1: Negotiation and Communication in Edge Play
This workshop will cover negotiation beyond the basics, focusing on the specific considerations of negotiation for, communication during, and aftercare/debriefing in scenes and ongoing dynamics which involve edge play.
Whip it Good! with Kitty Obsidian
Learn the fundamentals of single tail and dragon tail whips in this beginner-friendly workshop with Kitty Obsidian. Explore whip anatomy, safety, quality selection and basic techniques in an inclusive, accessible learning environment.
The Secret Society: July
Come spend your night in our beautiful space with our friendly team and wonderful guests.
Pins and Needles - July
Whether your interest in sharps and needles is a newfound passion, or you've been honing your skills for some time, we'd love to have you along.
Secret Sessions - July
A relaxed afternoon of upskilling, community building and play - come and explore the Studio in our new Sunday Sessions!
Command Workshop 6: The art of humiliation and degradation
Take a Journey into Confident, Conscious Dominance
Step into your authority with skill, safety, and intention. This is your chance to access live and in-person training in the fundamental skills of the Dominatrix.
Secret Sessions (CFns)
Welcome to Secret Service, our CFns (Clothed Female, naked slave) event created to make ladies feel like the Queens they are.
Command Workshop 5: Unlock the art, safety and pleasure of anal play
Take a Journey into Confident, Conscious Dominance
Step into your authority with skill, safety, and intention. This is your chance to access live and in-person training in the fundamental skills of the Dominatrix.
The Secret Society: June
Come spend your night in our beautiful space with our friendly team and wonderful guests.
Disability Confident Kink
This workshop is suitable for all levels of experience, both for allies and people with disability (including visible and invisible disabilities).
Command Workshop 4: Foundations of corporal punishment
Take a Journey into Confident, Conscious Dominance
Step into your authority with skill, safety, and intention. This is your chance to access live and in-person training in the fundamental skills of the Dominatrix.
Pins and Needles - June
Whether your interest in sharps and needles is a newfound passion, or you've been honing your skills for some time, we'd love to have you along.
Command Workshop 3: Bondage rope for beginners
Take a Journey into Confident, Conscious Dominance
Step into your authority with skill, safety, and intention. This is your chance to access live and in-person training in the fundamental skills of the Dominatrix.
Secret Sessions - June
A relaxed afternoon of upskilling, community building and play - come and explore the Studio in our new Sunday Sessions!
Command Workshop 2: Equipment approved by the Pros
Take a Journey into Confident, Conscious Dominance
Step into your authority with skill, safety, and intention. This is your chance to access live and in-person training in the fundamental skills of the Dominatrix.