Module 1 of 3 in the Serve Program – a series designed especially for submissives – attend one workshop, or all 3 for a discounted price.
Explore vetting, safety, self-collaring, and learn how to prepare yourself mentally, physically and emotionally for service. Consider the difference between tops/ bottoms and Dominants/ submissives. Begin your exploration with guided journal prompts and questionnaires that unpack your desires and the drive behind them.
In this 2-hour workshop we will explore:
How to vet a potential partner
How to find your ‘submissive identity’
Understanding different relationship styles and dynamics
Pre-play negotiation
The importance of aftercare
Physical, mental and emotional preparation
Top/ Bottom vs Dom/sub
Boundaries, self-care & safety
For those seeking deeper exploration, 1:1 private training sessions are available – see more and apply at www.lucyfleurx.com/serve
About your presenter:
Domina Lucy Fleur is a former military officer with a professional background spanning operational, executive and strategic leadership, yoga teaching and bodywork. In 2025 she completed her Dominatrix apprenticeship under Mistress Zoe Demure at Studio of Secrets. Domina Lucy enjoys sessions where mutual exploration and development is the focus, and places a heavy emphasis on psychological safety. She describes herself as an ‘emotional sadist’ and derives great pleasure in taking control of people’s minds to support their personal growth.
A restless neophile, she has formal qualifications across education, organisational behaviour, disaster and executive consequence management – as well as yoga, massage, make-up artistry (and whatever other hobby she gets into next). The Serve program is her way of bringing together the lessons she has learned from her experience in BDSM, service, personal development and leadership.
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